Wow! Marriage is the net that any man and woman of age enter at some points. This is also a command of God to multiply in the world. There are those traditional norms that should be avoided if the marriage affair is to go to the next level.
At no point should a man or woman marry under coarsion. Everything goes with attitude. There is no point you’ll succeed without attitude. Marry someone of your choice and you will be successful. This is 21st century. Anything successful come with mutual agreement.
Parents should keep away from choosing whom their child should marry as they won’t live with couple. Mutual love should rule who should and who should not be married not based on parent’s liking. There’s should only be a guide but should not be made a choice.